1 00:00:03,367 --> 00:00:03,700 Tonight part two of 2 00:00:04,900 --> 00:00:06,433 the "Below Deck Sailing Yacht Reunion." 3 00:00:06,467 --> 00:00:07,967 We are having a baby. 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:11,000 -Whoo-hoo! 5 00:00:11,033 --> 00:00:12,934 I cannot believe what I've seen 6 00:00:12,967 --> 00:00:15,233 and I have yet to hear an apology from you. 7 00:00:15,266 --> 00:00:17,400 It didn't have to happen that way, but it did and I hate it. 8 00:00:17,433 --> 00:00:19,767 Gary had a girlfriend 9 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,633 when he came on board and Sydney slept with him. 10 00:00:22,667 --> 00:00:27,433 Dani, everybody wants to know, is JL the father of your baby? 11 00:00:27,467 --> 00:00:30,266 -Well... -Incredibly disgusting 12 00:00:30,300 --> 00:00:32,700 that he won't even acknowledge the situation 13 00:00:32,734 --> 00:00:35,233 JL, shall I say, does not have a spine. 14 00:00:35,266 --> 00:00:37,000 I wish he was here to defend himself 15 00:00:37,033 --> 00:00:38,567 or to say what he thinks. 16 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,633 Jean-Luc couldn't join us, so we tracked him down 17 00:00:41,667 --> 00:00:43,166 and he's here with us now. 18 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,266 If that is my child. 19 00:00:45,300 --> 00:00:48,867 I want everything, and anything to do 20 00:00:48,900 --> 00:00:50,533 with that child's life. 21 00:00:54,100 --> 00:00:55,467 Welcome back to part two of 22 00:00:55,500 --> 00:00:57,633 the "Below Deck Sailing Yacht Reunion." 23 00:00:57,667 --> 00:01:00,834 I'm Andy Cohen, joined by the Parsifal III crew -- 24 00:01:00,867 --> 00:01:04,900 Captain Glenn, Daisy, Gary, Natasha, Colin, 25 00:01:04,934 --> 00:01:07,867 Sydney, Alli, and Dani. 26 00:01:07,900 --> 00:01:10,533 Gary, Melanie, Jay, Facebook, 27 00:01:10,567 --> 00:01:13,900 why do you and Alli always flirt and make out in front of Sydney 28 00:01:13,934 --> 00:01:15,867 and then can't understand why she's so upset? 29 00:01:15,900 --> 00:01:17,367 Alli, same as what happened. 30 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:19,066 It was just -- it was a weird situation. 31 00:01:19,100 --> 00:01:20,734 You had feelings for me. I had feelings for Alli. 32 00:01:20,767 --> 00:01:22,367 Alli didn't have feelings for me. 33 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,367 It was like a domino effect, is wasn't going anywhere. Yes, I did. 34 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:26,800 No, no, no, but not in that way. 35 00:01:26,834 --> 00:01:28,600 But when you broke up with me, 36 00:01:28,633 --> 00:01:30,166 it was just like, this can't happen. 37 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,633 And it was just, you know, it was a weird situation. 38 00:01:32,667 --> 00:01:35,633 That wasn't easy for me. Are you actually saying this? 39 00:01:35,667 --> 00:01:38,066 That was not easy for me. That was really hard for me. 40 00:01:38,100 --> 00:01:40,867 And it was really awkward working with you every day. 41 00:01:40,900 --> 00:01:43,734 That's not fair to say that I didn't have feelings for you. 42 00:01:43,767 --> 00:01:46,533 And you know that that's not true. 43 00:01:46,567 --> 00:01:48,400 No, no, I do know that's not true -- You know that. 44 00:01:48,433 --> 00:01:51,867 But I think I felt a bit more for you, yeah, anyway. 45 00:01:51,900 --> 00:01:53,033 We've worked through this. 46 00:01:53,066 --> 00:01:54,500 I was just trying to do the right thing. 47 00:01:54,533 --> 00:01:57,033 And I was the only one who seems to be trying because no one else 48 00:01:57,066 --> 00:01:59,500 seemed to have any respect in this situation except for me. 49 00:01:59,533 --> 00:02:03,467 I tried my best to navigate a really awkward situation. I take my hat off for you. 50 00:02:03,500 --> 00:02:06,800 And that's what I said to you for you looking for Sydney's -- 51 00:02:06,834 --> 00:02:08,066 I wouldn't say condolences, 52 00:02:08,100 --> 00:02:10,767 but you were wondering why was Sydney upset 53 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,266 and you keep asking, are you okay with me doing this? 54 00:02:13,300 --> 00:02:15,000 And she said, yeah, I don't care. 55 00:02:15,033 --> 00:02:16,400 And you didn't know the whole story 56 00:02:16,433 --> 00:02:18,934 and you actually honestly worried about her feelings. 57 00:02:18,967 --> 00:02:21,734 She kept having digs at me so obviously she wasn't okay. Yeah, I know, but you were -- 58 00:02:21,767 --> 00:02:24,700 So I kept trying to check in I'm like -- 59 00:02:24,734 --> 00:02:26,367 I wasn't trying to get her okay. 60 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,133 I was trying to make sure that I wasn't hurting someone 61 00:02:29,166 --> 00:02:32,000 because I'm a human being and I have compassion. 62 00:02:32,033 --> 00:02:35,300 Alli, Lori S. wants to know if you feel like you 63 00:02:35,333 --> 00:02:38,700 broke girl code hooking up with Gary in Sydney's face. 64 00:02:38,734 --> 00:02:41,300 Why not wait until the season was over? 65 00:02:41,333 --> 00:02:43,934 No, I have my reasons for why I don't feel like I broke 66 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,133 the girl code. -What are they? 67 00:02:49,066 --> 00:02:51,600 Go, Alli, go. 68 00:02:51,633 --> 00:02:53,433 Why don't we ask Sydney? 69 00:02:53,467 --> 00:02:58,500 Sydney, do you know why she didn't break girl code? 70 00:02:58,533 --> 00:03:02,300 No, I'm not really sure why Alli saying that in particular. 71 00:03:02,333 --> 00:03:05,266 All I know is that, like, things that happened in the season 72 00:03:05,300 --> 00:03:08,400 and things that I said were not indicative 73 00:03:08,433 --> 00:03:10,767 of who I am and I'm very 74 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,667 upset about the way that I portrayed myself 75 00:03:13,700 --> 00:03:15,433 because I was hurting 76 00:03:15,467 --> 00:03:17,667 and feeling rejected on national television, 77 00:03:17,700 --> 00:03:20,800 I was jealous about being rejected by somebody 78 00:03:20,834 --> 00:03:23,033 that I had feelings for. 79 00:03:23,066 --> 00:03:25,633 I told myself I wouldn't get emotional. 80 00:03:25,667 --> 00:03:27,767 It's not a big deal and like everybody 81 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:29,467 has those feelings, everybody gets jealous. 82 00:03:29,500 --> 00:03:33,200 Everybody has insecurities. And I felt that. 83 00:03:33,233 --> 00:03:38,667 And I -- it's not an excuse for what I said, 84 00:03:38,700 --> 00:03:40,967 but I felt those things and I lashed out 85 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:44,066 and I hate myself for it. 86 00:03:44,100 --> 00:03:45,600 And that's the only thing I can think 87 00:03:45,633 --> 00:03:48,033 that Alli would think is breaking girl code. 88 00:03:48,066 --> 00:03:53,033 And I'm so sorry for it. No. That's not it. That's not it. 89 00:03:53,066 --> 00:03:54,133 Oh, that's not it. I'm sorry. 90 00:03:54,166 --> 00:03:56,000 That's not it. That's not it. 91 00:03:56,033 --> 00:03:58,300 I mean, I don't know why 92 00:03:58,333 --> 00:04:00,200 everyone's just sleeping over the fact 93 00:04:00,233 --> 00:04:04,000 that Gary had a girlfriend when he came on board 94 00:04:04,033 --> 00:04:08,233 and Sydney slept with him, a long-term girlfriend. 95 00:04:08,266 --> 00:04:10,700 So there, I've said it. 96 00:04:10,734 --> 00:04:13,867 So that is why you were not breaking girl code? 97 00:04:13,900 --> 00:04:17,934 I did everything I could to be respectful in a situation, 98 00:04:17,967 --> 00:04:21,033 but at the end of the day, when you sleep with someone, 99 00:04:21,066 --> 00:04:23,100 when they're in a relationship, 100 00:04:23,133 --> 00:04:27,300 I feel like that that kind of voids 101 00:04:27,333 --> 00:04:31,400 you being able to treat me the way you treated me. 102 00:04:31,433 --> 00:04:34,166 I'm like so hurt with what I've seen, 103 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:36,400 Sydney, I cannot believe what I've seen. 104 00:04:36,433 --> 00:04:38,767 And I have yet to hear an apology from you. 105 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:40,633 I have yet to hear any sincerity from you. 106 00:04:40,667 --> 00:04:43,967 You only have cared about how you've looked on TV. 107 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:47,166 You haven't like one on one tried to contact me and say, 108 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:48,967 I'm so sorry for the things that I said. 109 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:52,166 You really hurt my feelings. 110 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:53,734 Sydney, what's your response? 111 00:04:53,767 --> 00:04:55,500 I'm just really, like, emotional about it. 112 00:04:55,533 --> 00:04:56,934 Sydney, what's your response? 113 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,900 Do you feel you owe her an apology? 114 00:05:00,934 --> 00:05:04,767 Of course, and I thought that what I just said was an apology. 115 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:09,300 No, I haven't tried to reach out to Alli one on one 116 00:05:09,333 --> 00:05:11,967 mostly just because I've been trying to deal with this 117 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:16,433 in my own way and I've been dealing with a lot of 118 00:05:16,467 --> 00:05:19,533 personal trauma with like realizing who I am 119 00:05:19,567 --> 00:05:22,834 and trying to figure out how to navigate myself in this, 120 00:05:22,867 --> 00:05:26,400 and I haven't known how to reach out to Alli. 121 00:05:26,433 --> 00:05:29,433 And I thought now would be the best way. 122 00:05:29,467 --> 00:05:31,033 I should've reached out to her before. 123 00:05:31,066 --> 00:05:33,033 On TV, it just seems so insincere. Cellphone. 124 00:05:33,066 --> 00:05:35,867 It's so insincere and that's why I'm still so upset. 125 00:05:35,900 --> 00:05:39,867 I've just freshly seeing so much stuff on the episodes. 126 00:05:39,900 --> 00:05:42,033 And I'm -- I'm like gutted. 127 00:05:42,066 --> 00:05:44,567 I'm gutted with the things that I've seen. 128 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:48,066 It's you -- you kind of embarrassed me. 129 00:05:48,100 --> 00:05:50,533 And I feel like you've embarrassed yourself. 130 00:05:50,567 --> 00:05:52,066 And I know that you know that I don't want to -- 131 00:05:52,100 --> 00:05:54,533 I'm not trying to hurt you. I'm not trying to rub it in. 132 00:05:54,567 --> 00:05:58,467 But you -- if you were sincere about this apology, 133 00:05:58,500 --> 00:05:59,867 you would have said it to me one on one 134 00:05:59,900 --> 00:06:03,433 you wouldn't have waited to hear on the reunion show. 135 00:06:03,467 --> 00:06:05,066 Ooh. 136 00:06:05,100 --> 00:06:07,800 Gary, did you have a girlfriend when you came on the boat? 137 00:06:07,834 --> 00:06:09,400 You know, now that it's come out, yes, I did. 138 00:06:09,433 --> 00:06:12,300 We were in a very complicated relationship. 139 00:06:12,333 --> 00:06:13,433 I hadn't seen her for eight months 140 00:06:13,467 --> 00:06:16,233 prior to me coming on the show. 141 00:06:16,266 --> 00:06:18,734 The fact that I was in a relationship, 142 00:06:18,767 --> 00:06:21,734 Yes, I was. If you want to go put that label on it, for sure. 143 00:06:21,767 --> 00:06:24,166 Not seeing someone for eight months and growing apart 144 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:27,166 for those eight months nonstop, do we put a label on that? 145 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:29,734 No, we only look at the negative things that, yes, 146 00:06:29,767 --> 00:06:31,667 I had a "girlfriend" and I did what I did 147 00:06:31,700 --> 00:06:33,800 was that's the only regret 148 00:06:33,834 --> 00:06:35,600 I've got in life was doing what I did. 149 00:06:35,633 --> 00:06:38,867 We see your perspective. We don't see her perspective. 150 00:06:38,900 --> 00:06:43,200 So don't say, oh, if you want to see it like, 151 00:06:43,233 --> 00:06:45,500 oh, I didn't see her for eight months. 152 00:06:45,533 --> 00:06:46,734 I mean, maybe you're right. 153 00:06:46,767 --> 00:06:49,600 But from her perspective, she might have seen 154 00:06:49,633 --> 00:06:51,633 your relationship different. 155 00:06:51,667 --> 00:06:54,867 So, Gary, did you break up at all during the charter? 156 00:06:54,900 --> 00:06:56,900 I mean, were you still "together" 157 00:06:56,934 --> 00:06:59,033 as the whole charter away. No. 158 00:06:59,066 --> 00:07:02,633 After what happened with Sydney and I, I had to let her know. 159 00:07:02,667 --> 00:07:05,266 And the hardest thing was I hadn't spoken to her 160 00:07:05,300 --> 00:07:07,000 I don't know, maybe -- 161 00:07:07,033 --> 00:07:09,500 maybe two weeks prior to that, I'd say. 162 00:07:09,533 --> 00:07:11,066 And then that was the news that I had to tell her. 163 00:07:11,100 --> 00:07:14,867 But I couldn't live with myself for knowing what I'd done. 164 00:07:14,900 --> 00:07:15,900 Well, initially, I sent her a message 165 00:07:15,934 --> 00:07:17,300 saying I kissed my deckhand 166 00:07:17,333 --> 00:07:19,633 and hoping that she would think my deckhand was a dude. 167 00:07:19,667 --> 00:07:23,400 But no, I mean, I thought it was okay. 168 00:07:23,433 --> 00:07:25,700 No, uh... -Nice try. 169 00:07:25,734 --> 00:07:27,734 I couldn't, yeah, I couldn't live with myself. 170 00:07:27,767 --> 00:07:29,266 Why have a girlfriend if you're not going to be 171 00:07:29,300 --> 00:07:30,800 able to be with them 24/7? 172 00:07:30,834 --> 00:07:33,767 And clearly, I wasn't that type of person for her 173 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,500 and I proved it in the completely wrong way. 174 00:07:36,533 --> 00:07:39,367 And yeah, I had to let her know. 175 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:41,567 You could have saved a lot of people a lot of drama 176 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:45,100 if you just hooked up with JL that first night. 177 00:07:45,133 --> 00:07:49,967 I don't have a stepladder on board, unfortunately. 178 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:53,467 Sydney, are you seeing anybody now? 179 00:07:53,500 --> 00:07:54,767 Yes, I have a partner 180 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:57,767 that I've been with for about five months now. 181 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,100 And what's his reaction to the show? 182 00:08:02,333 --> 00:08:05,266 You know, my partner knows that it's in the past 183 00:08:05,300 --> 00:08:08,400 and that's that and, um, 184 00:08:08,433 --> 00:08:09,867 you know, I've come to -- 185 00:08:09,900 --> 00:08:12,200 I work with him on a new boat now. 186 00:08:12,233 --> 00:08:14,367 He's the captain and we work together. 187 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:16,266 And he doesn't -- 188 00:08:16,300 --> 00:08:17,934 I mean, he's not the biggest fan of the show, obviously, 189 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:19,967 it's never easy to see the person 190 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,300 that you have strong feelings for, 191 00:08:23,333 --> 00:08:26,767 having intimate relations with other people, you know, 192 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:28,433 in front of the nation. Yes, yes, I can imagine. 193 00:08:28,467 --> 00:08:29,867 Yes, yes. 194 00:08:29,900 --> 00:08:32,600 But, you know, he's supportive of me and he cares about me. 195 00:08:32,633 --> 00:08:37,000 And, you know, he's there to have my back no matter what. 196 00:08:37,033 --> 00:08:41,400 Wow, and Alli, are you seeing anybody these days? 197 00:08:41,433 --> 00:08:43,834 Yes, I have a boyfriend. 198 00:08:43,867 --> 00:08:45,400 We are just about to move in together. 199 00:08:45,433 --> 00:08:49,133 I'm finally signing a lease for a house for the first time 200 00:08:49,166 --> 00:08:52,000 in a long time and going to live the land life. 201 00:08:52,033 --> 00:08:55,200 That's great. Any other updates with you? 202 00:08:58,767 --> 00:09:00,934 Yeah. 203 00:09:03,533 --> 00:09:08,166 Yes, we are having a baby. 204 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:09,967 -Whoo-hoo! 205 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:15,500 Coming up... 206 00:09:15,533 --> 00:09:18,400 Dani, everybody wants to know, 207 00:09:18,433 --> 00:09:22,200 is JL the father of your baby? 208 00:09:31,233 --> 00:09:31,600 We are having a baby. 209 00:09:34,567 --> 00:09:35,867 -Whoo-hoo. 210 00:09:39,967 --> 00:09:41,734 How far along are you? 211 00:09:41,767 --> 00:09:45,000 -I'm 20 weeks. -Wow. 212 00:09:45,033 --> 00:09:46,867 Yeah. 213 00:09:46,900 --> 00:09:50,633 That is very exciting. 214 00:09:50,667 --> 00:09:52,734 It's a very exciting, it's scary, but exciting. 215 00:09:52,767 --> 00:09:56,767 Very fertile crew... 216 00:09:56,800 --> 00:10:00,633 We are. So Dani and I are pregnant at the same time. 217 00:10:00,667 --> 00:10:03,266 It's so cool. -Very sweet. 218 00:10:03,300 --> 00:10:05,300 Gary, did you know about this? 219 00:10:05,333 --> 00:10:08,100 -What, about Alli's pregnancy? -Yes. 220 00:10:08,133 --> 00:10:11,900 No, I didn't. No, I didn't. No, I didn't. 221 00:10:11,934 --> 00:10:13,900 What's your reaction? She didn't tell me that at all. 222 00:10:13,934 --> 00:10:16,200 -What's your reaction? -I'm happy for her. 223 00:10:16,233 --> 00:10:18,533 She told me when I spoke to her that her boyfriend 224 00:10:18,567 --> 00:10:20,967 treats her well and treats like a princess. 225 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:23,300 And at the end of the day, as long as Alli's happy, 226 00:10:23,333 --> 00:10:25,166 I'm happy. 227 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:26,567 So as long as he treats her well 228 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,700 and she's as happy as she says she is, 229 00:10:28,734 --> 00:10:31,433 then by all means, congratulations, Alli. 230 00:10:31,467 --> 00:10:34,333 I wish you many happy years together. 231 00:10:34,367 --> 00:10:37,467 And I'm sure your kids will be amazing. 232 00:10:37,500 --> 00:10:38,900 They've got a mother like you. Of course they will so. 233 00:10:38,934 --> 00:10:40,834 Thank you. 234 00:10:40,867 --> 00:10:43,633 I wanted to ask about the crossing. 235 00:10:43,667 --> 00:10:47,000 You know, the season ended on sort of a cliffhanger. 236 00:10:47,033 --> 00:10:49,667 There was this crossing. 237 00:10:49,700 --> 00:10:52,166 What happened on the crossing? How was it? 238 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:54,967 I mean, Gary, did you and Alli 239 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:58,500 rekindle your relationship during the crossing? 240 00:10:58,533 --> 00:11:02,166 Yeah, actually, that's where we built our relationship up. 241 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:05,133 And we actually, I would say, became a couple, 242 00:11:05,166 --> 00:11:08,433 if I can say that, Alli, for the crossing. 243 00:11:08,467 --> 00:11:12,767 And until we got to basically until she left to Australia, 244 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:14,233 which it was inevitable that 245 00:11:14,266 --> 00:11:16,000 she was always leaving to Australia. 246 00:11:16,033 --> 00:11:19,066 So I think in both of our minds, in the back of our minds, 247 00:11:19,100 --> 00:11:22,100 we knew it could never seriously work because of that, 248 00:11:22,133 --> 00:11:24,200 regardless of the great chemistry 249 00:11:24,233 --> 00:11:27,667 and the ability to make each other laugh endlessly 250 00:11:27,700 --> 00:11:31,066 and also finish each other's... 251 00:11:31,100 --> 00:11:34,400 No, clearly not, sentences, but there we go, yeah. Sentences. 252 00:11:34,433 --> 00:11:38,066 And do that. -Whomp, whomp. 253 00:11:38,100 --> 00:11:40,166 Colin, Tricia P. wants to know 254 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:43,133 if your opinion of Gary changed at all after he told you 255 00:11:43,166 --> 00:11:46,066 he just wanted to have sex with Sydney 256 00:11:46,100 --> 00:11:48,967 to get Alli's attention. -No. 257 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:50,567 I mean, Gary's a really good friend. 258 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:54,166 We became such good mates 259 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:57,700 and he didn't really want to take any of my advice. 260 00:11:57,734 --> 00:12:00,834 So I was kind of wasting my breath in the end there 261 00:12:00,867 --> 00:12:02,934 a little bit, but he's my boy. 262 00:12:02,967 --> 00:12:05,567 We're still good mates. You all right there, Daisy? 263 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,033 Sorry, sorry. 264 00:12:07,066 --> 00:12:09,734 She's like every drunk... 265 00:12:09,767 --> 00:12:12,233 Maybe don't have any more wine! 266 00:12:12,266 --> 00:12:14,166 Wine! 267 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:17,867 Oh, you're doing -- That's Erica. That's good. 268 00:12:17,900 --> 00:12:20,667 Colin, Lauren B. wants to know if you think 269 00:12:20,700 --> 00:12:22,367 Gary would have been a better manager 270 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:26,100 if he wasn't distracted with this love triangle all season. 271 00:12:26,133 --> 00:12:27,266 I think Gary was a great manager 272 00:12:27,300 --> 00:12:28,967 and I think Glenn said it pretty clearly. 273 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,200 And I completely agree with him that Gary, 274 00:12:31,233 --> 00:12:32,700 in terms of the professionalism, 275 00:12:32,734 --> 00:12:34,500 was exceptional. 276 00:12:34,533 --> 00:12:37,867 Alli, Joto said after everything that happened with Gary, 277 00:12:37,900 --> 00:12:41,100 why were you kissing him during the last charter? 278 00:12:41,133 --> 00:12:45,300 I still have feelings for him and I made a poor decision 279 00:12:45,333 --> 00:12:49,700 and forgave something that I shouldn't have forgiven. 280 00:12:49,734 --> 00:12:54,567 Alli, do you in Sydney feel like you had closure today? 281 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:57,033 Um, I don't think so. 282 00:12:57,066 --> 00:13:00,133 -No. -No, sorry. 283 00:13:00,166 --> 00:13:02,166 Sydney, do you? 284 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:06,734 I think that, you know, with mine and Alli's complicated... 285 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,300 we're never really going to have a complete closure. 286 00:13:11,333 --> 00:13:12,700 I think there's been a lot that's happened 287 00:13:12,734 --> 00:13:14,066 between the two of us 288 00:13:14,100 --> 00:13:16,467 that can't necessarily be resolved over one 289 00:13:16,500 --> 00:13:20,166 zoom call, I think it needs much more than that. 290 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:23,567 ...what could have been a beautiful friendship. 291 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:26,100 And I am very sorry 292 00:13:26,133 --> 00:13:28,834 that it hasn't been what it should have been 293 00:13:28,867 --> 00:13:30,233 considering Alli and I could've been 294 00:13:30,266 --> 00:13:34,100 the best of friends, but just the way things played, 295 00:13:34,133 --> 00:13:36,967 it wasn't in the cards for us 296 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,066 and quite remarkable 'cause I think Alli is a beautiful soul 297 00:13:40,100 --> 00:13:41,500 and I think she has a good heart 298 00:13:41,533 --> 00:13:44,967 and I'm very regretful for the way things have played out. 299 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:49,133 Yeah, I don't think you're a bad person at all, Sydney. 300 00:13:49,166 --> 00:13:52,233 I just don't like things that went down. 301 00:13:52,266 --> 00:13:54,200 But I definitely don't think you're a bad person. 302 00:13:54,233 --> 00:13:56,133 I know you. I can see in your face -- 303 00:13:56,166 --> 00:13:58,033 I don't like the way things went down either, believe me, 304 00:13:58,066 --> 00:13:59,834 I wish they hadn't. 305 00:13:59,867 --> 00:14:01,633 Well, I think you're both in agreement. 306 00:14:01,667 --> 00:14:03,333 We will leave it there. 307 00:14:03,367 --> 00:14:07,433 Everybody love everybody. Everyone, I love everyone. 308 00:14:07,467 --> 00:14:10,767 Well, not quite everybody. 309 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:13,233 Gary, you don't talk to me 310 00:14:13,266 --> 00:14:15,700 so that's a whole 'nother [bleep]... 311 00:14:15,734 --> 00:14:19,033 How many bottles of wine have you had at this point, Daisy? 312 00:14:22,333 --> 00:14:24,200 Is it... 313 00:14:24,233 --> 00:14:27,233 -That's a good question. -Is it more than two? 314 00:14:27,266 --> 00:14:31,500 Andy, stop being jealous. 315 00:14:31,533 --> 00:14:35,000 Stop being jealous. 316 00:14:35,033 --> 00:14:38,900 After the break, we're getting into the MVPs of PDA -- 317 00:14:38,934 --> 00:14:40,333 Dani and JL. 318 00:14:40,367 --> 00:14:43,400 Don't go anywhere. We'll be right back. 319 00:14:43,433 --> 00:14:45,200 Coming up... 320 00:14:45,233 --> 00:14:48,834 You're upset. JL? 321 00:14:48,867 --> 00:14:50,433 Oh, man, um... 322 00:14:57,934 --> 00:15:00,500 We are back with the "Below Deck Sailing Yacht Reunion." 323 00:15:00,533 --> 00:15:02,967 I'm Andy Cohen joined by Captain Glenn, Daisy, 324 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:08,000 Gary, Natasha, Colin, Sydney, Alli, and Dani. 325 00:15:08,033 --> 00:15:10,800 Despite an age difference, height difference, 326 00:15:10,834 --> 00:15:15,333 and a harrowing STD scare, it was only chafing, 327 00:15:15,367 --> 00:15:17,900 Dani and JL found love this season, 328 00:15:17,934 --> 00:15:19,834 even if they had trouble finding a bed 329 00:15:19,867 --> 00:15:21,433 that could fit both of them. 330 00:15:21,467 --> 00:15:23,033 Let's watch. 331 00:15:23,066 --> 00:15:25,633 JL, I dare you to kiss Dani. 332 00:15:25,667 --> 00:15:28,500 -Yeah! -Yeah! 333 00:15:28,533 --> 00:15:31,467 I could definitely make out with her again, that's for sure. 334 00:15:31,500 --> 00:15:35,967 I'm not sure how this height difference is going to work, 335 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,767 but I'm looking forward to find out. 336 00:15:41,967 --> 00:15:44,567 I want the very best for you so much. 337 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:47,600 Why can't I be with you? I want to have babies. 338 00:15:47,633 --> 00:15:49,867 I want to get married. Let's have sex tonight. 339 00:15:49,900 --> 00:15:52,934 And if I get pregnant, that's God's will. 340 00:16:03,467 --> 00:16:06,166 All right, so, Dani, 341 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:08,567 by the way, congratulations again on your pregnancy. 342 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:09,834 How are you feeling? 343 00:16:09,867 --> 00:16:12,667 Thank you, um... 344 00:16:15,367 --> 00:16:18,066 I'm very happy being a mom, you know, 345 00:16:18,100 --> 00:16:20,200 obviously I didn't plan this, 346 00:16:20,233 --> 00:16:25,834 but I'm happy with, you know, with, yeah. 347 00:16:25,867 --> 00:16:27,900 We saw you and JL 348 00:16:27,934 --> 00:16:29,867 leave the boat together in the finale, 349 00:16:29,900 --> 00:16:31,233 what happened next? 350 00:16:31,266 --> 00:16:35,000 Did you guys hang out after 351 00:16:35,033 --> 00:16:37,867 or how did you -- how did -- what happened? 352 00:16:37,900 --> 00:16:42,467 Well, we did hang out for a couple days. 353 00:16:42,500 --> 00:16:47,266 But it was never really -- I kept trying to tell him 354 00:16:47,300 --> 00:16:50,400 the whole season that it wouldn't really ever work like 355 00:16:50,433 --> 00:16:53,233 I was coming to Australia, he was going to America. 356 00:16:53,266 --> 00:16:54,734 I was not going to move from Australia 357 00:16:54,767 --> 00:16:56,300 to go anywhere else for him. 358 00:16:56,333 --> 00:17:00,600 And I wouldn't ask him to move to Australia for me. 359 00:17:00,633 --> 00:17:03,467 And I just kept trying to convince him 360 00:17:03,500 --> 00:17:04,667 that this wouldn't work. 361 00:17:04,700 --> 00:17:06,033 And he kept the whole season 362 00:17:06,066 --> 00:17:08,867 trying to convince me that this would work. 363 00:17:08,900 --> 00:17:12,033 And what's your relationship status today? 364 00:17:12,066 --> 00:17:14,667 -I am single. -You're single. 365 00:17:14,700 --> 00:17:17,700 Well, Alli W. wants to know if any of the rest of you 366 00:17:17,734 --> 00:17:22,166 are surprised how this all turned out for Dani. 367 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:25,400 I, um, I was shocked. 368 00:17:25,433 --> 00:17:30,133 It took me a few days to digest, I'm not going to lie. 369 00:17:30,166 --> 00:17:31,767 It was hard. 370 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:37,100 Wow, Dani, everybody wants to know 371 00:17:37,133 --> 00:17:41,033 is JL the father of your baby? 372 00:17:43,300 --> 00:17:45,400 Well, let's put it this way, 373 00:17:45,433 --> 00:17:48,300 this baby was made during the season 374 00:17:48,333 --> 00:17:51,800 while we had cameras 24/7 with us 375 00:17:51,834 --> 00:17:54,600 and I only slept with one guy, so. 376 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:59,900 What is his reaction to the pregnancy then? 377 00:17:59,934 --> 00:18:04,567 He hasn't support me at all in any way. 378 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:08,800 He thinks it's not his child and he doesn't want 379 00:18:08,834 --> 00:18:12,166 to have anything to do with it. 380 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:15,433 Wow, Dani, what have your conversations been like 381 00:18:15,467 --> 00:18:18,000 with JL and are you in touch 382 00:18:18,033 --> 00:18:21,567 with anyone else in his family or? 383 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:24,233 So from the beginning, Andy, 384 00:18:24,266 --> 00:18:26,200 I found out I was pregnant when I was 385 00:18:26,233 --> 00:18:27,900 in quarantine in Sydney. 386 00:18:27,934 --> 00:18:30,266 So as soon as I got to Australia, I found it out. 387 00:18:30,300 --> 00:18:33,300 I was alone there. 388 00:18:33,333 --> 00:18:35,033 And I told him and he was obviously 389 00:18:35,066 --> 00:18:36,467 a bit shocked and everything, 390 00:18:36,500 --> 00:18:38,900 but he was -- he seemed supportive. 391 00:18:38,934 --> 00:18:42,667 He told me he would support me, whatever I decided to do. 392 00:18:42,700 --> 00:18:45,066 So he was supportive in the beginning. 393 00:18:45,100 --> 00:18:48,533 And then it just changed like around December. 394 00:18:48,567 --> 00:18:54,066 Things just changed and he was just not interested anymore. 395 00:18:54,100 --> 00:18:57,834 And yeah, and then on the 1st of January, New Year's, 396 00:18:57,867 --> 00:19:01,500 I get a message saying, don't go around telling people. 397 00:19:01,533 --> 00:19:04,166 I mean, I'm the dad of this child 398 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:06,100 and I want a DNA test. 399 00:19:06,133 --> 00:19:08,433 And I have all the messages, 400 00:19:08,467 --> 00:19:10,433 all the receipts to say that I said, okay, 401 00:19:10,467 --> 00:19:12,834 you want a DNA test, let's do it. 402 00:19:12,867 --> 00:19:14,467 And but I will only do it 403 00:19:14,500 --> 00:19:16,166 if you organize and you pay first 404 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:19,200 because it's quite expensive and it's contribution. 405 00:19:19,233 --> 00:19:23,633 And if he was interested in doing that, he would do it. 406 00:19:23,667 --> 00:19:26,300 And he hasn't -- haven't done anything. 407 00:19:26,333 --> 00:19:30,233 I ask him again, but since January, 408 00:19:30,266 --> 00:19:33,767 he asked about the baby like twice or three times, 409 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:37,433 like, and his mom made a horrible comment online. 410 00:19:37,467 --> 00:19:40,367 And since then I just literally have zero interest 411 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:43,567 in having their family involved in my child's life. 412 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:48,133 She she made a horrible comment online about you? 413 00:19:48,166 --> 00:19:50,400 Yeah, she comments on -- 414 00:19:50,433 --> 00:19:52,233 somebody's comment on his pictures saying 415 00:19:52,266 --> 00:19:53,967 that it was very gross 416 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:57,567 that he would abandon the mother of his child, 417 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:03,500 and she comments that gross was a woman who uses a man 418 00:20:03,533 --> 00:20:06,900 because she's so desperate to be a mom. 419 00:20:06,934 --> 00:20:08,367 Wow. 420 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:09,567 Up next... 421 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:11,400 My heart breaks for Dani. 422 00:20:11,433 --> 00:20:14,500 JL, shall I say, does not have a spine. 423 00:20:24,567 --> 00:20:25,567 Welcome back to the "Below Deck Sailing Yacht Reunion." 424 00:20:26,934 --> 00:20:29,533 It's Andy Cohen with the gang from Parsifal III. 425 00:20:29,567 --> 00:20:34,100 Dani, what have your conversations been like with JL 426 00:20:34,133 --> 00:20:37,400 and are you in touch with anyone else in his family or... 427 00:20:37,433 --> 00:20:40,100 His mom made a horrible comment online 428 00:20:40,133 --> 00:20:43,033 and since then I just literally have zero interest 429 00:20:43,066 --> 00:20:46,200 in having that family involved in my child's life. 430 00:20:46,233 --> 00:20:49,533 She made a horrible comment online about you? 431 00:20:49,567 --> 00:20:51,900 Yeah, she comments on -- 432 00:20:51,934 --> 00:20:53,500 somebody commented on his pictures 433 00:20:53,533 --> 00:20:55,367 saying that it was very gross 434 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:58,967 that he would abandon the mother of his child. 435 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:04,867 And she commented that gross was a woman who uses a man 436 00:21:04,900 --> 00:21:08,233 because she's so desperate to be a mom. 437 00:21:08,266 --> 00:21:11,166 Wow. I'm so sorry. 438 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:14,300 Thanks, Andy, I've been getting some comments 439 00:21:14,333 --> 00:21:17,033 really mean comments from people saying, like how, 440 00:21:17,066 --> 00:21:19,400 well, you knew he didn't want to be involved. 441 00:21:19,433 --> 00:21:22,667 You should just have had an abortion. 442 00:21:22,700 --> 00:21:25,500 And I just want to say that I'm very pro-choice. 443 00:21:25,533 --> 00:21:26,767 I think people should do -- 444 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,000 women should do whatever they think is best for them. 445 00:21:29,033 --> 00:21:32,467 But for me, I just wouldn't be able to do that. 446 00:21:32,500 --> 00:21:35,433 Obviously, I say during the whole season that I want 447 00:21:35,467 --> 00:21:37,567 to be a mom and a family, but I wanted a family. 448 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,333 That was my plan. That was my vision. 449 00:21:40,367 --> 00:21:43,734 I would not choose to move to a new country 450 00:21:43,767 --> 00:21:45,100 where I don't know anybody 451 00:21:45,133 --> 00:21:48,500 to have a child with a 24-year-old boy 452 00:21:48,533 --> 00:21:49,700 that I barely knew. 453 00:21:49,734 --> 00:21:53,200 So I did not choose that. I did not plan that. 454 00:21:53,233 --> 00:21:56,200 But I'm just going with it now 455 00:21:56,233 --> 00:22:01,133 and I'm sure my little baby girl is going to be, 456 00:22:01,166 --> 00:22:04,600 you know, yeah, 457 00:22:04,633 --> 00:22:06,767 she's going to be amazing 458 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,066 and I will do my best every day 459 00:22:09,100 --> 00:22:12,734 to give her everything she needs. 460 00:22:12,767 --> 00:22:17,500 And it's a girl which is very exciting to hear 461 00:22:17,533 --> 00:22:19,967 and, you know, listen, 462 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:24,667 this girl is going to come into a world where she is very loved 463 00:22:24,700 --> 00:22:27,800 and you're going to be an incredible mom. 464 00:22:27,834 --> 00:22:30,700 You want her, you're waiting for her, 465 00:22:30,734 --> 00:22:34,133 and you're going to be great. 466 00:22:34,166 --> 00:22:37,133 Thanks, Andy. I appreciate that. 467 00:22:37,166 --> 00:22:38,800 I'm very happy it's a little girl 468 00:22:38,834 --> 00:22:41,734 because I wouldn't know what to do with a boy. 469 00:22:41,767 --> 00:22:43,433 So, yeah. 470 00:22:43,467 --> 00:22:47,033 Alli, what's your reaction to that? 471 00:22:47,066 --> 00:22:49,400 I've known this for a while. 472 00:22:49,433 --> 00:22:55,100 So I've been talking to Dani almost every day. 473 00:22:55,133 --> 00:22:56,867 I've been hearing her struggles. 474 00:22:56,900 --> 00:22:59,133 She's working so hard. 475 00:22:59,166 --> 00:23:02,000 She's doing 12-hour days. She's on her feet. 476 00:23:02,033 --> 00:23:06,066 She is trying to get herself prepared as best as she can. 477 00:23:06,100 --> 00:23:07,600 She's been so amazing. 478 00:23:07,633 --> 00:23:10,433 And it's just incredibly 479 00:23:10,467 --> 00:23:12,667 disgusting and frustrating 480 00:23:12,700 --> 00:23:16,033 that he won't even acknowledge the situation. 481 00:23:16,066 --> 00:23:20,066 So my heart breaks for Dani, 482 00:23:20,100 --> 00:23:22,567 but she's so strong and I know 483 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:26,333 that she can do this without him and she will be better off. 484 00:23:26,367 --> 00:23:28,734 Gary, what's your reaction to this? 485 00:23:28,767 --> 00:23:32,066 I just I feel people or JL, shall I say, 486 00:23:32,100 --> 00:23:33,467 does not have a spine. 487 00:23:33,500 --> 00:23:37,767 And for the little respect that I had for him, I mean, 488 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,066 that's gone out the window. 489 00:23:39,100 --> 00:23:40,767 I mean, he's got something beautiful 490 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,467 coming into this world. 491 00:23:42,500 --> 00:23:44,567 And the fact that he doesn't want anything to do with it, 492 00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:46,934 I just cannot fathom that at all. 493 00:23:46,967 --> 00:23:50,633 And Dani, I know you're going to be the best mom ever. 494 00:23:50,667 --> 00:23:53,266 I had a dad that could have been there 495 00:23:53,300 --> 00:23:54,967 that he chose not to be there. 496 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:56,934 And that's one thing I've learned in life 497 00:23:56,967 --> 00:23:58,200 is to not be like that. 498 00:23:58,233 --> 00:24:00,100 And this is a prime example on that. 499 00:24:00,133 --> 00:24:03,066 And... 500 00:24:03,100 --> 00:24:06,000 And grow a spine. 501 00:24:06,033 --> 00:24:09,400 That's I don't really want to say -- Thanks, Gary. 502 00:24:09,433 --> 00:24:10,633 Really I don't want to say how I... 503 00:24:10,667 --> 00:24:12,500 I just want to say as well that 504 00:24:12,533 --> 00:24:15,700 I wish he was on this reunion because I'm not -- 505 00:24:15,734 --> 00:24:20,133 I don't want to -- and I'm just telling my side of the story 506 00:24:20,166 --> 00:24:22,066 and I wish he was here to defend himself 507 00:24:22,100 --> 00:24:23,400 or to say what he thinks, 508 00:24:23,433 --> 00:24:27,934 because I'm -- as much as, you know, everything he did, 509 00:24:27,967 --> 00:24:31,400 I don't think it is as fair that I'm just saying all this 510 00:24:31,433 --> 00:24:34,166 and he's not being able to say anything. Right, right. 511 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,600 You didn't come here with -- 512 00:24:36,633 --> 00:24:38,700 you didn't come here with and to be fair to you, 513 00:24:38,734 --> 00:24:40,667 you didn't come here with an ax to grind. 514 00:24:40,700 --> 00:24:43,033 You didn't come here with a bomb to drop. 515 00:24:43,066 --> 00:24:45,700 You're answering my questions honestly 516 00:24:45,734 --> 00:24:49,000 and that's it. 517 00:24:49,033 --> 00:24:51,500 I feel for you, Dani. I feel for you hard. 518 00:24:51,533 --> 00:24:53,567 Very good. Any final thoughts 519 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,900 that anyone wants to say before we leave you? 520 00:24:56,934 --> 00:24:58,233 I mean, these guys are amazing. 521 00:24:58,266 --> 00:25:01,100 I had a great time with these guys. 522 00:25:01,133 --> 00:25:02,567 You know, there was some stuff going on there, 523 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:06,066 some conflict, there was some indecision. 524 00:25:06,100 --> 00:25:10,567 But the positive energy in this crew this season was amazing. 525 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,066 I wasn't disappointed. 526 00:25:12,100 --> 00:25:13,834 We will leave things there. 527 00:25:13,867 --> 00:25:17,233 I want to thank the crew for joining me from around the world 528 00:25:17,266 --> 00:25:19,266 and for an incredible season. 529 00:25:19,300 --> 00:25:22,834 Dani, Alli, congratulations to you both. 530 00:25:22,867 --> 00:25:25,066 Came to see pictures of your babies. 531 00:25:25,100 --> 00:25:28,333 You're both going to be the greatest moms. 532 00:25:28,367 --> 00:25:29,800 Thank you so much. 533 00:25:29,834 --> 00:25:31,066 Up next... 534 00:25:31,100 --> 00:25:32,400 You know, a lot of viewers have been asking 535 00:25:32,433 --> 00:25:35,133 whether you're the father of Dani's baby. 536 00:25:35,166 --> 00:25:38,000 What do you say to that? 537 00:25:42,867 --> 00:25:45,500 Oh, man, you're going to make me do this now, aren't you? 538 00:25:52,233 --> 00:25:55,033 Welcome back to the "Below Deck Sailing Yacht Reunion." 539 00:25:55,066 --> 00:25:57,266 As you know, Jean-Luc couldn't join us, 540 00:25:57,300 --> 00:26:01,433 so we tracked him down and he's here with us now. 541 00:26:01,467 --> 00:26:03,033 How are we doing, Andy? How's it going? 542 00:26:03,066 --> 00:26:09,000 Great. So why were you unable to join us at the reunion taping? 543 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,533 So that was really unfortunate. 544 00:26:13,567 --> 00:26:16,633 I did want to be there, but I had a charter 545 00:26:16,667 --> 00:26:20,500 and it was our primary's his daughter's birthday. 546 00:26:20,533 --> 00:26:23,000 So basically one of the biggest days of the whole charter 547 00:26:23,033 --> 00:26:25,433 that I could not take time off for. 548 00:26:25,467 --> 00:26:26,700 I just couldn't. 549 00:26:26,734 --> 00:26:29,433 Right. What was the biggest professional lesson 550 00:26:29,467 --> 00:26:33,300 that you learned this year on the show? 551 00:26:33,333 --> 00:26:36,100 Oh, biggest professional lesson. 552 00:26:36,133 --> 00:26:39,467 Do not get intimate with any of the crew. 553 00:26:39,500 --> 00:26:41,667 Right. What would you say 554 00:26:41,700 --> 00:26:45,133 the status of your relationship with Dani is today? 555 00:26:45,166 --> 00:26:49,066 Today, I would say the status of my relationship with Dani 556 00:26:49,100 --> 00:26:52,467 is kind of a little uncertain. 557 00:26:52,500 --> 00:26:54,967 We definitely talk a little bit back and forth, 558 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,200 not as much as we probably should. 559 00:26:57,233 --> 00:27:02,934 But yeah, it's just -- there's some things that are, 560 00:27:02,967 --> 00:27:04,500 you know, to be questioned. 561 00:27:04,533 --> 00:27:08,433 And she has questions for me and I have questions for her. 562 00:27:08,467 --> 00:27:10,233 And, you know, we're trying to be adults 563 00:27:10,266 --> 00:27:14,967 about this whole entire process and figure it out. 564 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,033 Well, you know, a lot of viewers have been asking 565 00:27:17,066 --> 00:27:20,166 whether you're the father of Dani's baby. 566 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,333 What do you say to that? 567 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,433 Oh, man, you're going to make me do this now, aren't you? 568 00:27:34,033 --> 00:27:37,400 I asked for a paternity test 569 00:27:37,433 --> 00:27:40,000 and essentially that turned into a lot of backlash 570 00:27:40,033 --> 00:27:42,000 and her not wanting to hear from me 571 00:27:42,033 --> 00:27:44,734 and essentially not having to do anything with me, 572 00:27:44,767 --> 00:27:49,033 but for me as a 24-year-old at the time, you know, 573 00:27:49,066 --> 00:27:51,633 with not much experience at all in a relationship 574 00:27:51,667 --> 00:27:53,900 and a woman telling me that she's pregnant, 575 00:27:53,934 --> 00:27:57,467 I feel like that that's a very understandable question 576 00:27:57,500 --> 00:28:00,500 to ask in any situation. 577 00:28:00,533 --> 00:28:03,066 And she took it very poorly. 578 00:28:03,100 --> 00:28:04,800 And I understand why she took it poorly, 579 00:28:04,834 --> 00:28:06,834 because, you know, in her mind, 580 00:28:06,867 --> 00:28:08,900 I might be the only person that she's ever been with. 581 00:28:08,934 --> 00:28:11,133 And if that's the case, I told her, 582 00:28:11,166 --> 00:28:14,133 I really do apologize but for my peace of mind, 583 00:28:14,166 --> 00:28:17,767 I just wanted to know and I told her that this is my child, 584 00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:19,834 I want to be a part of that child's life 585 00:28:19,867 --> 00:28:23,800 every single day as much as I can 586 00:28:23,834 --> 00:28:27,266 for the rest of her little life or his life. You do? If you find out -- 587 00:28:27,300 --> 00:28:29,767 Abso-[bleep]-lutely. The people. Hold on. 588 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,333 I'm sorry, because now I'm gonna start getting emotional. 589 00:28:32,367 --> 00:28:34,867 The fact that people -- I don't know where this came from 590 00:28:34,900 --> 00:28:36,266 or what source this was from, 591 00:28:36,300 --> 00:28:38,367 the fact that people are telling me 592 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,400 that I want nothing to do with this child, 593 00:28:41,433 --> 00:28:43,266 it's really tearing me up. 594 00:28:43,300 --> 00:28:45,333 Like all my friends and all my family know 595 00:28:45,367 --> 00:28:47,233 the type of person that I am 596 00:28:47,266 --> 00:28:50,734 and know that I want everything to do with that child, 597 00:28:50,767 --> 00:28:52,667 everything, if it is mine. 598 00:28:52,700 --> 00:28:55,934 But the fact of me not knowing at this particular moment 599 00:28:55,967 --> 00:28:57,533 if it is or is not my child, 600 00:28:57,567 --> 00:28:59,100 how am I supposed to go about that 601 00:28:59,133 --> 00:29:01,734 and tell everyone 100% that it is? 602 00:29:01,767 --> 00:29:03,300 Because I don't know. 603 00:29:03,333 --> 00:29:05,834 I want everybody to know who watches your show, 604 00:29:05,867 --> 00:29:08,033 who watches Bravo, who watches "Below Decks Sailing Yacht" 605 00:29:08,066 --> 00:29:11,200 if that is my child, 606 00:29:11,233 --> 00:29:17,166 I want everything and anything to do with that child's life. 607 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:20,066 Bottom line, bottom line. 608 00:29:20,100 --> 00:29:24,200 Well, that makes me really happy to hear. 609 00:29:24,233 --> 00:29:27,200 Why didn't you take the DNA test? 610 00:29:27,233 --> 00:29:32,166 There was talk of a DNA test and I still want to do it. 611 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,100 I was told that I have to pay for it, 612 00:29:34,133 --> 00:29:35,734 which is completely fine. 613 00:29:35,767 --> 00:29:37,166 Money is not the object. 614 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,633 The peace of mind is the object here. 615 00:29:39,667 --> 00:29:42,300 And so, you know, 616 00:29:42,333 --> 00:29:44,767 we've gone as far as me 617 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:49,500 trying to reach out to her doctor's office. 618 00:29:49,533 --> 00:29:51,367 I don't know if it's something that, you know, 619 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,333 I don't think lawyers need to get involved. 620 00:29:53,367 --> 00:29:56,834 That's not the avenue I want to go at all. 621 00:29:56,867 --> 00:30:01,600 I'd really like for me and Dani to work together on this. 622 00:30:01,633 --> 00:30:04,600 But she told me that if this was my child, 623 00:30:04,633 --> 00:30:09,166 that she would never basically throw dirt 624 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,266 on my name to our child. 625 00:30:11,300 --> 00:30:16,166 Okay, good. Okay, well, the headline news is 626 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,734 that there's a little baby girl, 627 00:30:19,767 --> 00:30:22,667 and if she's yours, 628 00:30:22,700 --> 00:30:27,567 you want to be a very big part of her life. 629 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,400 I want to be there. 630 00:30:30,433 --> 00:30:31,900 I want to be there for the birth, 631 00:30:31,934 --> 00:30:35,934 I want to as much as Dani probably doesn't want me there. 632 00:30:35,967 --> 00:30:39,834 I know that this child is gonna be born very soon. 633 00:30:39,867 --> 00:30:41,433 I was told a date. 634 00:30:41,467 --> 00:30:44,900 I'm not going to share that with you guys because she hasn't. 635 00:30:44,934 --> 00:30:48,867 And I have been counting down the days till I hear something. 636 00:30:48,900 --> 00:30:53,166 You know, the fact of me -- the fact of me knowing that 637 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,233 this could possibly be my child 638 00:30:55,266 --> 00:30:59,100 and not being there for the birth is killing me. 639 00:30:59,133 --> 00:31:00,900 Wow. 640 00:31:00,934 --> 00:31:03,400 I would love to share with you 641 00:31:03,433 --> 00:31:05,900 what Dani told us on the reunion 642 00:31:05,934 --> 00:31:08,834 about where she's coming from and get your response to it. 643 00:31:10,667 --> 00:31:12,300 Let's roll it. 644 00:31:14,734 --> 00:31:19,000 He thinks it's not his child and he doesn't want 645 00:31:19,033 --> 00:31:20,734 to have anything to do with this. 646 00:31:20,767 --> 00:31:24,367 I get a message saying, don't go around telling people. 647 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,033 I mean, I'm the dad of this child 648 00:31:27,066 --> 00:31:29,233 and I want a DNA test. 649 00:31:29,266 --> 00:31:33,300 She is trying to get herself prepared as best as she can. 650 00:31:33,333 --> 00:31:34,834 She's been so amazing. 651 00:31:34,867 --> 00:31:39,934 And it's just incredibly disgusting and frustrating 652 00:31:39,967 --> 00:31:43,300 that he won't even acknowledge the situation. 653 00:31:43,333 --> 00:31:47,600 So my heart breaks for Dani. 654 00:31:47,633 --> 00:31:49,834 JL, shall I say, does not have a spine. 655 00:31:49,867 --> 00:31:53,734 And for the little respect that I had for him, 656 00:31:53,767 --> 00:31:55,467 I mean, that's gone out the window. 657 00:31:55,500 --> 00:31:57,567 You knew he didn't want to be involved, 658 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,500 you should just have had an abortion. 659 00:32:00,533 --> 00:32:06,100 She comments that gross was a woman who uses a man 660 00:32:06,133 --> 00:32:08,767 because she's so desperate to be a mom. 661 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:13,633 I'm sure my little baby girl is going to be, 662 00:32:13,667 --> 00:32:17,033 you know, yeah, 663 00:32:17,066 --> 00:32:19,867 she's going to be amazing. 664 00:32:19,900 --> 00:32:22,500 Okay. 665 00:32:22,533 --> 00:32:26,600 You're upset. 666 00:32:26,633 --> 00:32:30,700 JL? 667 00:32:30,734 --> 00:32:33,500 Yeah, hello. 668 00:32:33,533 --> 00:32:36,133 What's your reaction to that? 669 00:32:38,734 --> 00:32:41,000 Oh, man. 670 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:53,000 I don't know right now. Words don't, uh... 671 00:32:53,033 --> 00:32:56,567 I'm a little lost for words at the moment. 672 00:32:56,600 --> 00:33:00,433 Do you feel misrepresented by her? 673 00:33:00,467 --> 00:33:04,333 You know, everything that -- everything that she said is 674 00:33:04,367 --> 00:33:06,266 most of it is correct 675 00:33:06,300 --> 00:33:09,600 as far as the messages that we went back and forth 676 00:33:09,633 --> 00:33:13,900 about how in December I started apparently, you know, 677 00:33:13,934 --> 00:33:16,967 not being there for her as much or whatnot. 678 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,266 What was your family's reaction to learning 679 00:33:19,300 --> 00:33:20,767 that Dani was pregnant? 680 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,800 I know you're a mom originally said on the show 681 00:33:22,834 --> 00:33:24,867 that you two look cute together. 682 00:33:27,633 --> 00:33:30,567 Yes, so, you know, 683 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,367 mom's initial reaction, 684 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,000 she was excited, she was a little confused 685 00:33:36,033 --> 00:33:38,633 because she's been telling me my whole life to wear protection 686 00:33:38,667 --> 00:33:41,200 and be safe and this, this and that 687 00:33:41,233 --> 00:33:44,934 and, you know, haven't really taken on 688 00:33:44,967 --> 00:33:48,400 that teaching that 689 00:33:48,433 --> 00:33:50,100 she's been trying to tell me. 690 00:33:50,133 --> 00:33:52,266 I know that she'd be happy for me. 691 00:33:52,300 --> 00:33:53,734 But in the same token, 692 00:33:53,767 --> 00:33:56,000 she wants to know the same thing that I want to know. 693 00:33:56,033 --> 00:33:57,800 And she's only trying to protect me. 694 00:33:57,834 --> 00:34:01,000 And I actually told her about two weeks ago 695 00:34:01,033 --> 00:34:03,734 after she made that comment that's been going around, 696 00:34:03,767 --> 00:34:06,934 I told her I was like, Mom, you need to realize 697 00:34:06,967 --> 00:34:11,300 that even though what they're saying could be true 698 00:34:11,333 --> 00:34:14,066 or could not be true, you can't let it get to you. 699 00:34:14,100 --> 00:34:19,433 Does she think that Dani used you to become a mom? 700 00:34:19,467 --> 00:34:21,567 I think that was said out of anger 701 00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,934 towards a bunch of other things. 702 00:34:24,967 --> 00:34:29,500 And what was your reaction to hearing about that comment? 703 00:34:29,533 --> 00:34:33,200 You know, I didn't agree with it. 704 00:34:33,233 --> 00:34:35,300 I told her to take it down, 705 00:34:35,333 --> 00:34:40,133 to delete it, because I knew that, 706 00:34:40,166 --> 00:34:43,600 you know, I didn't like for things to be said 707 00:34:43,633 --> 00:34:45,433 in regards to Dani that way, 708 00:34:45,467 --> 00:34:47,867 and I hope that she wouldn't have like things said about me 709 00:34:47,900 --> 00:34:50,734 in regards to that way, so I made her take it down. 710 00:34:50,767 --> 00:34:52,967 I actually got really frustrated with her over the phone. 711 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,367 I said, Mom, you can't be doing this. 712 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:58,500 Whether what you believe is true or not, you can't be doing this 713 00:34:58,533 --> 00:35:00,066 because then it paints me in the picture 714 00:35:00,100 --> 00:35:02,100 because I'm attached to you. 715 00:35:02,133 --> 00:35:04,533 So, yeah, I was pretty -- I was pretty upset 716 00:35:04,567 --> 00:35:08,800 and I made her take it down and she did and she apologized. 717 00:35:08,834 --> 00:35:11,700 But it seems like if you're hung up on a DNA test 718 00:35:11,734 --> 00:35:16,400 and you understand that it's okay for you to pay for, 719 00:35:16,433 --> 00:35:20,200 I mean, it seems like maybe your mom could help you out 720 00:35:20,233 --> 00:35:22,967 and try to facilitate this test. 721 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:27,433 It seems like a pretty simple equation. 722 00:35:27,467 --> 00:35:29,266 Well, you know, Andy, at this point, 723 00:35:29,300 --> 00:35:32,934 the child is going to be born here very soon. Yeah. 724 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,800 As soon as a child is born, we're going to know. 725 00:35:36,834 --> 00:35:38,066 Coming up... 726 00:35:38,100 --> 00:35:40,800 I would not choose to move to a new country 727 00:35:40,834 --> 00:35:42,300 where I don't know anybody 728 00:35:42,333 --> 00:35:45,734 and to have a child with the 24-year-old boy. 729 00:35:54,767 --> 00:35:56,667 Are you still in touch with anyone from 730 00:35:56,700 --> 00:35:59,133 the Parsifal III crew because, 731 00:35:59,166 --> 00:36:01,133 I mean, their reaction to learning your behavior 732 00:36:01,166 --> 00:36:06,200 surrounding Dani's pregnancy announcement was damning. 733 00:36:06,233 --> 00:36:08,200 Oh, yeah. No, I know none of those guys -- 734 00:36:08,233 --> 00:36:09,967 none of those people like me. 735 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,967 That's okay, though. I really -- I'm cool with that. 736 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:17,100 Everyone has their own opinion and the fact that they all saw 737 00:36:17,133 --> 00:36:22,867 one side to the story and now everyone, you know, 738 00:36:22,900 --> 00:36:26,000 has this picture against me and now I'm a piece of 739 00:36:26,033 --> 00:36:27,934 And I saw their faces, you know, 740 00:36:27,967 --> 00:36:31,000 I saw how everyone started judging me right off the bat. 741 00:36:31,033 --> 00:36:33,633 And that's okay, because they're going off of stuff 742 00:36:33,667 --> 00:36:35,633 of what they only heard from someone 743 00:36:35,667 --> 00:36:40,166 and, you know, not the other side of the story. 744 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,100 But no, I wish everyone the best of luck 745 00:36:43,133 --> 00:36:47,533 who was on board with on Parsifal III. 746 00:36:47,567 --> 00:36:50,533 But as far as it goes, I don't -- I don't care 747 00:36:50,567 --> 00:36:54,166 what any of them think as far as this situation goes at all, 748 00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:55,767 because none of them have gone through this 749 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:57,567 and they have no idea what it's like so. 750 00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:00,100 Is there anything else that you wish 751 00:37:00,133 --> 00:37:04,767 you had been able to tell Dani or your fellow crewmates, 752 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:07,734 had you been at the reunion, that you haven't said? 753 00:37:07,767 --> 00:37:11,166 Is there any possible chance that I can see that clip again? 754 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,166 Sure, yeah. 755 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:14,367 Please, yeah. 756 00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,166 Guys, let's play it again for him. 757 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,166 I'm just telling my side of the story, 758 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,066 and I wish he was here to defend himself 759 00:37:21,100 --> 00:37:22,233 or to say what he thinks. 760 00:37:22,266 --> 00:37:25,500 I would not choose to move to a new country 761 00:37:25,533 --> 00:37:28,000 where I don't know anybody and to have a child 762 00:37:28,033 --> 00:37:31,200 with a 24-year-old boy that I barely knew. 763 00:37:31,233 --> 00:37:33,767 I know that she can do this without him 764 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:35,100 and she will be better off. 765 00:37:35,133 --> 00:37:38,033 Disgusting and frustrated that he won't even acknowledge. 766 00:37:38,066 --> 00:37:39,834 You knew he didn't want to be involved 767 00:37:39,867 --> 00:37:41,633 you should've just had an abortion. 768 00:37:41,667 --> 00:37:45,567 The comments that gross was a woman who uses a man 769 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:46,867 because she's so desperate to be a mom. 770 00:37:46,900 --> 00:37:49,066 The little respect that I had for him, 771 00:37:49,100 --> 00:37:50,967 that's gone out the window. 772 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,400 Is it worse the second time? 773 00:37:55,433 --> 00:37:57,834 -Yeah, yeah, yeah. -Why? 774 00:37:57,867 --> 00:37:59,700 I was paying attention, I was paying attention 775 00:37:59,734 --> 00:38:02,433 a little bit more to things that were said. 776 00:38:02,467 --> 00:38:03,967 Well, I think -- 777 00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:05,934 The looks on people's faces, too. 778 00:38:05,967 --> 00:38:07,967 Well, I think the most important thing 779 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,834 isn't the looks on other people's faces. 780 00:38:09,867 --> 00:38:12,633 I think the most important thing is what she said. 781 00:38:12,667 --> 00:38:17,367 And I listen, I've been doing this a long time 782 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,200 and I've talked to a lot of people 783 00:38:19,233 --> 00:38:22,700 in uncomfortable situations and at these reunions and stuff 784 00:38:22,734 --> 00:38:26,200 and I thought it was very notable that she said, 785 00:38:26,233 --> 00:38:27,533 I wish he was here. 786 00:38:27,567 --> 00:38:29,934 I didn't come here to attack him. 787 00:38:29,967 --> 00:38:31,800 I think you should take that to heart 788 00:38:31,834 --> 00:38:34,433 because especially if you're saying 789 00:38:34,467 --> 00:38:39,600 that pretty much everything she said was true, you know. 790 00:38:39,633 --> 00:38:42,400 -Mm-hmm. -You're upset. 791 00:38:45,133 --> 00:38:48,867 I'm not happy, no. 792 00:38:48,900 --> 00:38:50,700 It seems like now is the time 793 00:38:50,734 --> 00:38:54,333 for you to communicate and figure this thing out. 794 00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,400 You might regret it if you don't. 795 00:39:03,567 --> 00:39:07,467 Yeah, I don't -- I really -- I really don't know. 796 00:39:07,500 --> 00:39:11,567 I don't know what to tell you. I don't know what to say. 797 00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:15,000 Listen, Dani and your former crewmates are going to see this. 798 00:39:15,033 --> 00:39:18,233 Is there anything else you want to say to them? 799 00:39:18,266 --> 00:39:21,600 I just think that... 800 00:39:21,633 --> 00:39:26,000 just don't really judge a book by its cover. 801 00:39:26,033 --> 00:39:29,367 You know, I understand how I'm probably 802 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,133 being perceived right now 803 00:39:32,166 --> 00:39:38,000 and... I just want everyone to know that, 804 00:39:38,033 --> 00:39:40,266 you know, if this is my child, 805 00:39:40,300 --> 00:39:44,467 I want everything to do with this kid, like, you know, 806 00:39:44,500 --> 00:39:46,300 I haven't told Dani this, 807 00:39:46,333 --> 00:39:50,433 but I thought about moving to Australia like. 808 00:39:50,467 --> 00:39:52,867 There's been a lot of scenarios running through my mind 809 00:39:52,900 --> 00:39:56,767 these past eight months to where it's, you know, 810 00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,767 I don't know. 811 00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:01,867 I've thought about every possible avenue, 812 00:40:01,900 --> 00:40:04,433 every avenue, 813 00:40:04,467 --> 00:40:07,567 and I just -- I haven't come up with one yet. 814 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:09,233 And to Dani... 815 00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:16,600 what we had on the show for me was real. 816 00:40:16,633 --> 00:40:18,066 I don't care what anybody says, 817 00:40:18,100 --> 00:40:20,967 even now that we're going through what we're going, 818 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:25,467 what I felt for you and the time that we had was genuine 819 00:40:25,500 --> 00:40:29,066 and everything that I ever said to you was true. 820 00:40:29,100 --> 00:40:30,967 And... 821 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,867 the fact that we are at where we are now, I'm really sorry, 822 00:40:33,900 --> 00:40:39,233 and I-I would assume to say that most of it is my fault. 823 00:40:39,266 --> 00:40:41,266 Maybe because it's -- 824 00:40:41,300 --> 00:40:45,100 I'm the boy that you think that I am and... 825 00:40:45,133 --> 00:40:50,200 I don't know, but with that being said, 826 00:40:50,233 --> 00:40:52,633 I want to be there for you. 827 00:40:52,667 --> 00:40:55,934 And... 828 00:40:55,967 --> 00:40:58,633 I just want to know 829 00:40:58,667 --> 00:41:04,166 what I've asked you for months now and... 830 00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:07,333 though you may not want anything to do with me 831 00:41:07,367 --> 00:41:10,300 because of me asking you for a paternity test, 832 00:41:10,333 --> 00:41:11,333 I understand that. 833 00:41:11,367 --> 00:41:15,300 That's something that I can get over. 834 00:41:15,333 --> 00:41:21,033 But what I can't get over 835 00:41:21,066 --> 00:41:24,667 is if this is my child is not being there for her, 836 00:41:24,700 --> 00:41:27,500 to watch her grow up, to watch or learn how to eat, 837 00:41:27,533 --> 00:41:30,533 to watch her learn how to walk to... 838 00:41:30,567 --> 00:41:35,000 I can't get over that, and I need you to know that 839 00:41:35,033 --> 00:41:38,100 I did support your decision and still do. 840 00:41:38,133 --> 00:41:41,233 And I really hope that 841 00:41:41,266 --> 00:41:46,633 we can coparent together, mutually, 842 00:41:46,667 --> 00:41:49,600 and have respect for one another like we did. 843 00:41:49,633 --> 00:41:51,667 And I'm sorry that things happened the way that they did. 844 00:41:51,700 --> 00:41:54,867 I really am. Really am. 845 00:41:54,900 --> 00:41:56,233 -Wow. -So. 846 00:41:56,266 --> 00:41:58,734 -Well... -I think that's -- 847 00:41:58,767 --> 00:42:00,300 I think that's all I have to say. 848 00:42:00,333 --> 00:42:02,500 I think that's everything 849 00:42:02,533 --> 00:42:06,633 what you just said and what I really think you should do 850 00:42:06,667 --> 00:42:10,934 is remember everything you just said and write it all down 851 00:42:10,967 --> 00:42:15,700 and send it to Dani right now so you can 852 00:42:15,734 --> 00:42:18,667 resolve this. 853 00:42:18,700 --> 00:42:22,233 Yeah. 854 00:42:22,266 --> 00:42:24,333 She needs to hear from -- 855 00:42:24,367 --> 00:42:26,867 She needs to hear that from you, I think. 856 00:42:26,900 --> 00:42:29,166 Yeah. 857 00:42:30,700 --> 00:42:34,600 All right, Jean-Luc. 858 00:42:34,633 --> 00:42:37,900 A lot on your plate. 859 00:42:37,934 --> 00:42:41,433 Yeah, you're right. 860 00:42:41,467 --> 00:42:45,233 I really appreciate you talking to me tonight. 861 00:42:45,266 --> 00:42:49,400 And I was -- I'm happy to hear 862 00:42:49,433 --> 00:42:51,633 what you had to say for yourself. 863 00:42:54,500 --> 00:42:58,066 Glad to hear it, Andy, thanks. 864 00:42:58,100 --> 00:42:59,700 Thanks, Jean-Luc.